Mom and Dad Are Fighting

My Husband Isn’t Helping Out With Childcare. I’m Overwhelmed.

Slate’s parenting podcast on fairly splitting the parental workload.


Episode Notes

On this episode: Jamilah, Zak, and Elizabeth answer a question from an overwhelmed listener who is doing most of the childcare and housework for her family. Her husband isn’t helping out and is citing his ADHD as the reason why. What can they do to make the workload more manageable for everyone?

Zak recommends letting kids take the lead in the museum.
Elizabeth recommends Exit: The Game.
Jamilah recommends Wellmania on Netflix

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About the Show

Jamilah Lemieux, Elizabeth Newcamp, and Zak Rosen share triumphs and fails and offer advice on parenting kids from toddler to teens.

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