Mom and Dad Are Fighting

There’s No Such Thing as a Polite 3-Year-Old

Slate’s parenting podcast debates how to handle an obstinate “threenager.”

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Episode Notes

On this week’s episode: Jamilah, Elizabeth and Rebecca answer a question about a mother who “feels like less of a parent” now that she shares 50/50 custody of her daughter, post separation. They also answer a question about how to teach a “threenager” to be polite.

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Recommendations:

Elizabeth recommends actually using your fancy dishes.

Rebecca recommends making the switch to cloth napkins. Bonus recommendation for adults: watch Borgen.

Jamilah recommends Celestial Seasonings’ Lemon Lavender Lane tea.

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The Kids Are Asleep, the hilarious Slate Live show. Catch it via Slate’s Facebook or YouTube on Thursdays at 10:00 p.m. ET / 7:00 p.m. PT.

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Podcast produced by Rosemary Belson.

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Jamilah Lemieux, Dan Kois, and Elizabeth Newcamp share triumphs and fails and offer advice on parenting kids from toddler to teens.

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