Mom and Dad Are Fighting

Pretty White Boy Edition

Slate’s parenting podcast debates what to do when colorism affects how teachers treat your child.


Episode Notes

On this week’s episode: Dan and Jamilah are joined by Laura Tisdel to answer listener questions. A mom wonders how to deal with the privilege disparity between her biracial black daughter and her white son after she noticed her son getting preferential treatment at day care. Plus, a mom asks about taking the fall for her daughter when her daughter feels uncomfortable standing up to a friend. For Slate Plus, the hosts talk about the parenting vices they won’t be giving up in 2020. Sign up for Slate Plus here.


Laura recommends Rivers, Roads & Rails, a game where you collect pieces to make transportation pathways, plus Catherine Newman’s list of her favorite games.

Dan recommends Azul, a tile strategy game where you pretend to be building Portuguese tile art.

Jamilah recommends Surviving R. Kelly—Part II: The Reckoning on Lifetime.

Additional Reading:

The Color Complex by Kathy Russell, Midge Wilson, and Ronald Hall.

In 2020, Skip Your Resolutions—Embrace a Vice” by Slate staff.

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Audio engineering by Merritt Jacob.

Podcast produced by Rosemary Belson.


About the Show

Jamilah Lemieux, Elizabeth Newcamp, and Zak Rosen share triumphs and fails and offer advice on parenting kids from toddler to teens.

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