Man Up

Masculinity, race, and relationships in the modern world.

About the Show

On Man Up, host Aymann Ismail invites men and women to tell embarrassing, funny, and sometimes disturbing stories about their lives as they try to figure out what they still have to learn—and unlearn—about being a man. They’ll talk relationships, family, sex, and identity, trying to understand their experiences to help listeners make more sense of their own.

Becoming “Man of the House” Too Soon

After his father passed, Kareem told himself he needed to fill his dad’s shoes.

Where Mass Shootings Often Start

The police chief in Dayton, Ohio, said it was hard to fathom the killer would shoot his sibling. Kim Gandy knows better.

Therapy Shouldn’t Be Scary for Men

I should know—I just had my first session live on this podcast.

The Trouble With Being an Asian Guy on Tinder

Soon after Eddie Kim started online dating, he noticed something on a profile: “Sorry, not into Asians.”

Chefs Don’t Have to Be Monsters

Take it from someone who used to watch hot pans get thrown at people.

Your Opinions on Her Wardrobe Are Probably Unwelcome

In the past, I’ve commented on the way women dress. Rarely did I think of the consequences.

How Men Try to Attract Women

(It’s usually the wrong way.)

An Intervention

Man Up host Aymann Ismail faced thousands of tweets from angry conservatives. Then he tweeted where he lived.

Why Men Refuse to Do Yoga

The Right Words

A Muslim and a Sikh talk about how they respond to harassment.

The Things Brown-Skinned Men Do to Make People Comfortable

Scholar Simran Jeet Singh on the scrutiny Sikh men experience in America.

A Black Trans Man Meets the Police Again

Man Up talks about the lessons many black and brown men learn very young—and what happens when you have to play catch up.

The Case of the Kitchen Dishes List

Man Up on the gendered division of labor—in our office kitchen.

Crafting Characters Without Bias

What happens when you don’t relate to whom TV tells you to be.

How Kids Can Change You

Aymann Ismail talks with his older brother, Mohamed, about how his parenting style is markedly different from what they grew up with.

A Ghost Story

How a boy, and then man, confronted the specter of his father.

One of the Guys

What happened when one woman learned about sex from growing up in a group of boys.

Introducing Man Up

What happens when you no longer want to be the man you were taught to become?