How To!

How To Be a Lazy Genius

Kendra Adachi on prioritizing your life and making routines that stick.


Episode Notes

When Samantha and her husband moved from a condo to a fairly large house, they knew they’d have a lot of updating and upkeep to do. But they had no idea how much time their new chores would gobble up. Or even what chores to do. (If only there was a guide to adulting!) Even when they weren’t holding themselves to picture-perfect standards, it still felt like they were barely keeping their heads above water. On this episode of How To!, we bring on Kendra Adachi, she’s a bestselling author, podcaster, and professional permission giver. She has tangible, easy steps that you can do right now to help you prioritize and organize your mess—and ultimately, your life.

If you liked this episode, check out “How To Stop “Having It All” (Before You End Up With Nothing)

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Podcast production by Derek John and Rosemary Belson.

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