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How To Coach Squirrelly Kids (and Screaming Parents)

“If you get the culture right, you can get a lot wrong,” according to Doug Lemov.


Episode Notes

When Kelly volunteered to be the head coach for his son’s baseball team, he was nervous. He had no formal training, but he knew he wanted his players to have equal playing time and, more importantly, have fun. Which they did….until the yelling started and the season ended in a surprising loss (and quite a few tears). What can Kelly do better next season? On this episode of How To!, we bring on Doug Lemov, author of the books, Teach Like a Champion and The Coach’s Guide to Teaching. Doug has some fantastic advice for commanding attention, and managing failure, that we can all learn from—on or off the field.

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Podcast production by Derek John and Rosemary Belson.


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