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How To Fill an Empty Nest

I got nauseous when I dropped my first kid at college. Now I have to do this again?

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Episode Notes

Susan never really got over saying goodbye to her eldest daughter, who left for college four years ago. She knew it would be sad, but she didn’t expect to be nauseous. Now her youngest is applying to college, and she’s already dreading drop-off next fall which makes her feel like a “pathetic loser.” What can Susan do to prep herself for more heartbreak and a completely empty nest? On this episode of How To!, we bring on Kelly Corrigan, bestselling author and host of the podcast Kelly Corrigan Wonders. She recently dropped her youngest daughter off at college, which she wrote about in an essay for the New York Times called “How to Let Go of Your Irreplaceable, Unstoppable Daughter.” She shares some hard-earned wisdom about how to handle major life transitions with grace.

If you liked this episode, check out: “How To Get Your Kid to Finally Grow Up

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Podcast production by Derek John and Rosemary Belson.

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