Dear Prudence

The “Worth the Wait?” Edition

My girlfriend is late to everything. Help!

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Episode Notes

Prudence is joined this week by Hannah Selector, co-host of the Castle Rock Historical Society podcast and the YouTube series Reel Horror.

Prudie and Selector dig into letters about what to do when you can’t move past a one-time threat of violence from your sister-in-law, how to handle a girlfriend who’s chronically late, what to do after learning that your wife’s close friend hit on her at a party, whether you should keep your history of having an abortion secret from your adult sons, and whether you should contact the other jilted partner in your ex’s affair.

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Production by Phil Surkis.

About the Show

Whether it’s a challenge with a lover, a fight with a difficult roommate or boss, or you just like to hear about the challenges other people face, Dear Prudence is the podcast for you. Every week, Prudie and special guests answer questions about relationships, sex, work, family, and life.

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