Dear Prudence

The “Cooking Feud” Edition

My husband hates my cooking. Help!

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Episode Notes

Prudence is joined this week by Soleil Ho, the restaurant critic for the San Francisco Chronicle and host of the Chronicle’s new food podcast Extra Spicy.

Prudie and Ho dig into letters about how to handle a husband who never likes what you cook for him, what actions to take when your supervisor requires you to ask permission to use the restroom, and what to do when a housemate accuses you of “bullying” because you don’t share your meals with her.

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Production by Phil Surkis.

Update, July 15, 2020: This page and episode have been updated to remove a letter.

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Whether it’s a challenge with a lover, a fight with a difficult roommate or boss, or you just like to hear about the challenges other people face, Dear Prudence is the podcast for you. Every week, Prudie and special guests answer questions about relationships, sex, work, family, and life.

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