Big Mood, Little Mood

The “Oh, Now I’m Essential?” Edition

My mom used to look down on me for working at the grocery store. Now she’s calling me a hero on social media. Help!


Episode Notes

Prudence is joined this week by Justine D’Souza, who creates help content for a not-for-profit organization focused on international education and global mobility. She also counsels youth, young adults, and caregivers for a crisis helpline.

Prudie and D’Souza dig into letters about what to do with a mother who only became proud of your grocery store job in light of the pandemic; what to know about a fiancé with an annual ritual of honoring his former fiancée who was murdered; should you demand that your son’s girlfriend, who moved into your home, go on birth control; how to handle a partner who, even though you’re expecting a baby, doesn’t watch his finances; and what to do when your husband doesn’t stand up to his dad for making “creepy old man” comments to you on social media.

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Production by Phil Surkis.


About the Show

Every week, Danny M. Lavery brings on a guest to answer questions from listeners before diving into conversation about relationships, dissatisfaction, drives, regrets, estrangement, embarrassment, self-assessments, and feelings from the monumental to the minute.

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