Dear Prudence

Advice, commentary, and conversation from Danny M. Lavery.

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About the Show

Whether it’s a challenge with a lover, a fight with a difficult roommate or boss, or you just like to hear about the challenges other people face, Dear Prudence is the podcast for you. Every week, Prudie and special guests answer questions about relationships, sex, work, family, and life.

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The “Sibling Jealousy” Edition

I’m very close to my sister, but she recently admitted that she feels intense jealousy toward me. What can I do? Help!

The “Social (Media) Distancing” Edition

Social media gives me anxiety. What can I do during the coronavirus to keep my spirits up and interact with others? Help!

The “Covert Transition” Edition

My stepson secretly told me he’s transitioning. I don’t know how his father will take the news. Help!

The “Feminist Breast Lift” Edition

I used to think cosmetic surgery was lame and dumb, but now I’m starting to want to get some. Help!

The “Just Desserts” Edition

My son threatens his kids if they don’t eat their vegetables. Do I have to just sit and endure these uncomfortable fights? Help!

The “He Could Be the One” Edition

My sister is dating a felon. She says I’m being judgmental, but I don’t want him around my house or daughter. Help!

The “Unhappy Birthday” Edition

My young niece shares her birthday with a tragic anniversary in the family. Is there anything I can do to help this unfortunate situation? Help!

The “Cubicle Creep” Edition

HR told me a co-worker had been keeping a diary about me on his work computer. Help!

The “Ethics of Adoption” Edition

My sister says she’ll stop speaking to me if I adopt a child of color. Help!

The “Not a Good Look” Edition

I found out my boyfriend did blackface in college. Help!

The “I’m Right Behind You” Edition

My mother-in-law wrongfully accused me of having an affair—in the delivery room, right after I gave birth. Help!

The “Porn Boss” Edition

I saw my supervisor looking at pornographic images and videos on the plane during a work trip. Do I need to say something? Help!

The “Religion Won’t Save Him” Edition

My mentally ill brother recently found religion. I fear he’s using that as a way to hide that he isn’t taking care of himself.

The “Listen to Me” Edition

I’m paranoid about the smart speaker in my apartment. How can I ask my roommate to get rid of it? Help!

The “Stumped About Stumping” Edition

I want to run for City Council, but I’m also anxious about what running a campaign as a woman will do to my mental health. Help!

The “A Hell of a Guy” Edition

My father-in-law was a horrible person. Do we have to lie and speak kindly of him at his funeral? Help!

The “Profiting From Death” Edition

Should I take the fee for executing my parents’ will? It just feels greedy. Help!

The “Why Do I Spy?” Edition

I left my toxic job but I can’t stop snooping in on what’s going on there. Help!

The “Touch Starved” Edition

After moving to a new city, I’m finding out that I miss being hugged and touched by close friends. Help!

The “Not My Best Side” Edition

I just found out that my friend has been sharing photos she took of me while I was in a medically induced coma two years ago. Help!