Dear Prudence

Advice, commentary, and conversation from Danny M. Lavery.

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About the Show

Whether it’s a challenge with a lover, a fight with a difficult roommate or boss, or you just like to hear about the challenges other people face, Dear Prudence is the podcast for you. Every week, Prudie and special guests answer questions about relationships, sex, work, family, and life.

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The “Mean After Surgery” Edition

We took in my sister-in-law after she suffered a stroke. My husband has gone above and beyond for her, but she’s incredibly cruel to him. Help!

The “Racist Lawn Statue” Edition

I’m offended by the jockey statue on my neighbor’s lawn. Should I say something? Help!

The “Pre-Pandemic Wedding Commitment” Edition

My friend is forging ahead with her wedding this summer. I’d previously agreed to be her bridesmaid, but now I don’t want to risk going. Help!

The “Zoom Faux Pas” Edition

I accidentally screen-shared a page of erotic fan fiction in a work meeting. Help!

The “Unwanted Mural in My Home” Edition

What can we do about the totally hideous but beloved painting in our new house? Help!

The “Really, Let It Go!” Edition

My Disney-obsessed mom is trying to hijack my wedding. Help!

The “Secretive Spouse” Edition

Should I confront my husband about his sexuality after seeing his internet search history? Help!

The “Quarantine Kitchen” Edition

We’ve got way too many cooks in our kitchen during quarantine. Help!

The “Hasty Home Sale” Edition

I can’t get over the regret of a financial decision I made years ago. Help!

The “A Proper Burial” Edition

My sisters and I have decided to hold a virtual-only funeral for our mother, due to the pandemic. But we know our extended family will act offended. Help!

The “Blowing on Embers” Edition

The pandemic halted my affair. Do I still need to tell my husband? Help!

The “Jerk at Work Husband” Edition

Now that we’re both working from home, I can hear that my spouse is rude and talks down to his co-workers. Help!

The “Online Betrayal” Edition

My so-called friend is mocking me and calling me a bad mom on social media. Help!

The “Backroom Hookup” Edition

The office manager of my co-working space is having sex there while I’m working. Help!

The “Scattered About Ashes” Edition

My father died more than 30 years ago, but I’m finally ready to spread his ashes. Do I have to confer with my long-estranged siblings about my plans? Help!

The “A Nonprofit Liar” Edition

My childhood friend is lying about her past to solicit money for her nonprofit. Should I expose her? Help!

The “A Whale Tale” Edition

I want my father-in-law to stop bragging to my kids about eating a whale. Help!

The “Say My Name!” Edition

My husband calls out his dead wife’s name while we’re having sex. Help!

The “Once Is Enough” Edition

The last time I was a surrogate for my sister-in-law, I miscarried. Now she wants me to try again, saying I “owe her.” Help!

The “Oh, Now I’m Essential?” Edition

My mom used to look down on me for working at the grocery store. Now she’s calling me a hero on social media. Help!