Dear Prudence

Advice, commentary, and conversation from Danny M. Lavery.

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About the Show

Whether it’s a challenge with a lover, a fight with a difficult roommate or boss, or you just like to hear about the challenges other people face, Dear Prudence is the podcast for you. Every week, Prudie and special guests answer questions about relationships, sex, work, family, and life.

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The “Mom’s Food Issues” Edition

My mother has long complained about my weight. But now she’s sick, and I have to take care of her. Help!

The “Professional Purgatory” Edition

I feel I am way too old and overqualified for this stupid starter job. When can I quit? Help!

The “Cats in the Kitchen” Edition

My parents refuse to eat at my house because of my cats. Help!

The “Keeping My Polite Smile” Edition

I’m the only one in my small office who didn’t vote for Trump. Help!

The “Forced Contraception” Edition

My developmentally delayed teenager is suddenly really interested in sex. Should I put her on birth control? Help!

The “Family Rumors” Edition

My side of the family keeps “joking” that I’m having inappropriate relationships with my brothers-in-law. Help!

The “Moving for Mom” Edition

My husband wants to move back abroad to take care of his mother. I don’t want to uproot our lives. Help!

The “Animal Obsession” Edition

My sister’s need to help and rescue animals is wrecking her life. Help!

The “Unsafe Word” Edition

My girlfriend doesn’t respect the safe word during sex. Help!

The “Grief Support” Edition

My boyfriend’s mother died two years ago, but he’s still struggling with grief and living in the clutter of her belongings. Help!

The “Is This Work-Related?” Edition

My creepy boss constantly calls me on Zoom just to chat and tell me I’m wonderful. Help!

The “So-So on Strip Clubs” Edition

I’m worried my friends think that I love frequenting strip clubs. I don’t! Help!

The “Klepto Niece” Edition

My teenage niece has been stealing from family and others for years. Now she’s finally gotten caught, and my sister-in-law says it’s my fault. Help!

The “My True Self” Edition

I think I’m trans and want to surprise my husband with the news. Help!

The “Writer in the Closet” Edition

I’m terrified that coming out as trans will ruin my career. Help!

The “Don’t Make Me Say It” Edition

My co-worker changed their name to something that sounds like a private part. Help!

The “Flirtatious Bestie” Edition

I can’t tell if my boyfriend’s best friend wants to undermine our relationship or if I’m just being insecure. Help!

The “Retroactive Lesbian Guilt” Edition

Now that I realize I’m gay, I feel awkward about the drunken kisses I had with women years ago. Help!

The “In Good Hands” Edition

Am I giving up on my troubled daughter if I decide to send her away? Help!

The “Boyfriend Be Clean!” Edition

My partner is often “too busy” to shower and will go days without brushing his teeth. How do I get him to change his hygienic habits? Help!