Big Mood Little Mood

Rules of Estrangement

Talking about dud dads and crushing crushes with guest Marie Manner.


Episode Notes

Danny Lavery welcomes Marie Manner, a research and development data scientist.

Lavery and Manner take on two letters. First, from someone who is wondering if it’s okay she doesn’t have a big reason to cut her father from her life. Another letter writer is wondering if she should pursue a long-time crush.

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Production by Phil Surkis


About the Show

Every week, Danny M. Lavery brings on a guest to answer questions from listeners before diving into conversation about relationships, dissatisfaction, drives, regrets, estrangement, embarrassment, self-assessments, and feelings from the monumental to the minute.

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