Big Mood, Little Mood

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Talking relationships on the autism spectrum, anti-plucking vests, and falling for your therapist, with guests Zack Budryk and Charlie Stern.

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Episode Notes

Danny Lavery welcomes journalist Zack Budryk and photographer Charlie Stern. Together, Budryk and Stern co-host the relationship podcast Stim4Stim.

Lavery, Budryk, and Stern tackle two letters. First, a letter writer wonders why they feel scorn from strangers on a daily basis. Another letter writer has fallen in love with her therapist. Plus, a deep dive into how the Stim4Stim podcast came to be.

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Production by Phil Surkis

Correction, Sept. 8, 2021: This page originally misidentified Zack Budryk as an environmental journalist and Charlie Stern as an essayist. Budryk is a journalist and Stern is a photographer.


About the Show

Every week, Danny M. Lavery brings on a guest to answer questions from listeners before diving into conversation about relationships, dissatisfaction, drives, regrets, estrangement, embarrassment, self-assessments, and feelings from the monumental to the minute.

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