Big Mood, Little Mood

Not So Purely Platonic

Talking haunted chairs, emotional affairs, and Kat Chow’s new memoir, Seeing Ghosts.

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Episode Notes

Danny Lavery welcomes Kat Chow, a reporter and author of the forthcoming memoir, Seeing Ghosts.

Lavery and Chow tackle two letters: First, from a letter writer who is wondering how to trust a partner with a history of cheating; then another letter writer is wondering if her emotional affair with her best friend should be taken more seriously. Also, Chow takes a deep dive into Seeing Ghosts.

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Production by Phil Surkis.


About the Show

Every week, Danny M. Lavery brings on a guest to answer questions from listeners before diving into conversation about relationships, dissatisfaction, drives, regrets, estrangement, embarrassment, self-assessments, and feelings from the monumental to the minute.

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