Tiffany Haddish, Please Accept These Personalized Tips for Your New Life as a Jew

A warmest welcome to the tribe.

Tiffany Haddish holds a microphone and stands in front of candles at a party to celebrate her bat mitzvah.
Tiffany Haddish had a bat mitzvah on Dec. 3 in Beverly Hills, California, complete with candle-lighting ceremony.
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I know I won’t be the first to say it, seeing as how Barbra Streisand already sent you a star of David necklace, but on behalf of the Jews who weren’t famous enough to be invited to your recent bat mitzvah, take it from me: Welcome to the tribe, Tiffany Haddish. Mazel tov on both the bat mitzvah and your new Netflix comedy special, Black Mitzvah! We are so very happy to be able to count you as one of our own.

Tiffany, if there’s one thing I can tell you about Jews that may not have come up while you were studying your Torah portion, it’s that our favorite thing is talking about who else is Jewish. You’ve heard “The Chanukah Song,” haven’t you? It’s basically just a long list of famous people who have some Jewish heritage. We really eat that stuff up. When talking to a fellow Jew, one surefire way to fit in is to direct the conversation toward related people who happen to be Jewish. If you’re discussing the election, for instance: “Marianne Williamson? You know, she’s one of us.” It also works with pop culture: “Did you know that Drake is Jewish?” (Yes, everybody knows at this point. But we still like to talk about it.) It’s exactly the opposite of how you’re never supposed bring up Scientology when talking to your friends Will and Jada.

On that note, I wouldn’t be surprised if a lot of middle-aged or older Jews start approaching you when you’re out in public to declare proudly that they, too, are Jewish. (I apologize in advance for the any of the ones I’m related to.) I know you might think, “So what?” and not know what to say in response to this. But to Jews, being Jewish is like a secret handshake, even though there are like 14 million of us. These people will only be expressing their delight that the tribe can now lay claim to you. Yes, it’s proprietary like that. Sorry, also, if any of these Jews fetishize you for being a Jew of Eritrean descent rather than the typical Ashkenazi-American Jew—it’s just that, for so long, our most prominent exemplars were nebbishy types, or what the Los Angeles Times once called “the whiny, often immature urban male neurotic, à la Woody Allen, Jerry Seinfeld, Larry David, the Ross Geller character in Friends.” There are, obviously, many reasons why 2019’s Jews would rather associate themselves with you than Woody Allen.

You’re surely aware that these past few years have seen a return of the kind of anti-Semitism, both in the U.S. and abroad, that many Jews thought was a thing of the distant past. There’s some painful history there, yadda yadda yadda, I’m sure you know all this. So you can see why we, the Jewish people, need you, and that this is all around a big win for us, right? You bring a coolness and charisma to the population of Jews that we had been sorely lacking up to now. You know what we call that? Chutzpah.

Tiffany, again, my most sincere congratulations on becoming a woman, and a very happy Hanukkah to you this year.

P.S. Have you watched Season 3 of The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel yet? Can you believe that Rachel Brosnahan isn’t even Jewish? A shanda!