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On this week’s episode of the Waves, Christina Cauterucci, Kat Chow, and Veralyn Williams talk about Netflix’s To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before, unpacking the standards it’ll be held to as one of the only teen rom-coms with an Asian-American lead—and what sets its central romance apart from the rest of the genre. Next, chart-topping historical podcast Slow Burn has turned its sights from Watergate to the Clinton impeachment. The hosts are joined by Leon Neyfakh to discuss what it’s like to re-evaluate the roles and reputations of women like Paula Jones and Monica Lewinsky in 2018, why Bill Clinton has continued to loom large in the Democratic Party, and how we should reckon with his legacy now. Finally, a recent study of online dating found that men are perceived to peak in desirability at age 50, while women peak at 18. The trio explores how cultural norms might have reinforced these wildly uneven gendered expectations—online, on screen, and in their own lives.
And on Slate Plus: Is it sexist to call women “females”?
Other items discussed on the show:
- “This Week’s Other Asian American Rom-Com Is Streaming on Netflix,” by Inkoo Kang, in Slate
- Jon M. Chu’s Crazy Rich Asians
- “An Asian-American Teen Idol Onscreen, Finally,” by Jenny Han, in the New York Times
- “Don’t Tell Lana Condor Who She Can Love,” by Kathleen Hou, in the Cut
- To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before, by Jenny Han
- “To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before Has Creepy Racial Things Going On,” by Oxford Kondō, in Plan A
- Leon Neyfakh’s Slow Burn
- “In Confronting #MeToo, Bill Clinton Echoes Donald Trump,” by Christina Cauterucci, in Slate
- “For Online Daters, Women Peak at 18 While Men Peak at 50, Study Finds. Oy.” by Maya Salam, in the New York Times,
- “Most of Us Are Trying to Date ‘Out of Our League,’ New Study Suggests,” by Brittany Wong, in HuffPost
- “Leading Men Age, but Their Love Interests Don’t,” by Kyle Buchanan, in Vulture
- “Leonardo DiCaprio Only Dates Women Who Are 20 to 25 Years of Age,” by Christina Cauterucci, in Slate
- “The Case for an Older Woman,” by Christian Rudder, on the OkCupid Blog
- Kat: Mitski’s album Be the Cowboy
- Veralyn: Mara Brock Akil’s Love Is and Oprah Winfrey’s conversation with Gwyneth Paltrow on The Goop Podcast (disclaimer: Veralyn is only recommending this episode!)
- Christina: Making your own hummus and 23andMe’s podcast Spit
This podcast was produced by Veralyn Williams. Our production assistant is Alex Barasch.
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