Mom and Dad Are Fighting

Mom and Dad Are Fighting: The “Bad Grandpa” Edition

Confederate flags, chauvinist grandpas, and calendar fails, on Slate’s parenting podcast.

Carvell Wallace, Dan Kois, and Katherine Goldstein discuss calendar fails, the mundane unfairness of paying for day care with a health savings account, and how and when to teach kids to clean up after themselves. Plus, listener questions about dealing with a chauvinist grandpa and how and when to talk to your kids about a conspicuous Confederate flag on the side of the interstate.

In the Slate Plus segment, the panelists discuss the things they learned on their family vacations this year.


Katherine recommends the Dear Sugars podcast episode “Talking About Privilege—With Catrice M. Jackson

Dan recommends Stephen King

Carvell recommends the book Ocean Meets Sky by Terry Fan

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Podcast produced by Benjamin Frisch.