Welcome back to Ask a Homo, a judgment-free zone where the queers of Outward answer questions about LGBTQ politics, culture, etiquette, language, and other conundrums. Today’s correspondent realized too late that the guy he made a date with is in an open relationship. Does he have to go through with the hookup?
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