Ask a Homo: Are Asexuals Welcome in Gay Bars?

Welcome back to Ask a Homo, a judgment-free zone where the queers of Outward answer questions about LGBTQ politics, culture, etiquette, language, and other conundrums. Today, an aromantic asexual wonders if it’s OK to go to gay clubs. (An earlier Ask a Homo video counseled straight folks to stay away.)

If there are questions you’ve been dying to ask a member of the real rainbow coalition, this is your chance. Send your queries—for publication—to slateoutward@gmail.com, and please put “ASK A HOMO” in the subject line. Note that questions may be edited.

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What Do Parents Pay for in a Same-Sex Wedding?
Do Gay Men Prefer Shorter or Longer Names?
Why Are Gay People Always Getting Back With Their Exes?

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Is My Daughter’s Boyfriend Gay?
How Can an Openly Gay Man Best Support His Closeted boyfriend?
How to Get Pro-Gay Kids to Boycott Anti-Gay Businesses?
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