Ask a Homo: When Does a Lesbian Lose Her Virginity?

Welcome back to Ask a Homo, a judgment-free zone where the gays of Outward answer questions about LGBTQ politics, culture, etiquette, language, and other queer conundrums. This week we consider a delicate issue: When does a lesbian lose her virginity? 


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