Outward

Ask a Homo: Tops and Bottoms

Welcome back to Ask a Homo, a judgment-free zone where the gays of Outward answer questions about LGBTQ politics, culture, etiquette, language, and other queer conundrums. This week, J. Bryan Lowder plows through a few questions about tops, bottoms, and the mechanics of anal sex. (Note: This entry may be slightly NSFW depending on how your boss feels about gloved fingers.)

If there are questions you’ve been dying to ask a member of the real rainbow coalition, this is your chance. Send your queries—for publication—to slateoutward@gmail.com, and please put “ASK A HOMO” in the subject line. Note that questions may be edited.

Other Questions Asked of Homos:
Should a straight person frequent a gay bar? 
Why do lesbians wear so much flannel? 
What’s the deal with the gay lisp? 

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