Kate Fridkis blogs at Eat the Damn Cake, which is regularly syndicated on the Huffington Post and Psychology Today. Her pieces have appeared in Salon, Cosmopolitan, Tablet, and many more. She lives in Brooklyn. You can follow her on Twitter.
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