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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="http://www.slate.com/blogs/utility/FeedStylesheets/rss.xsl" media="screen"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"><channel><title>The XX Factor : middle-aged women</title><link>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/middle-aged+women/default.aspx</link><description>Tags: middle-aged women</description><dc:language>en</dc:language><generator>CommunityServer 2.1 SP2 (Build: 61129.2)</generator><item><title>You, Don't Send Me Flowers</title><link>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/2008/10/07/you-don-t-send-me-flowers.aspx</link><pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2008 18:12:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b38b617e-fbf1-4816-b2a6-f11ec83af8cb:3804</guid><dc:creator>Melinda Henneberger</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/comments/3804.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/commentrss.aspx?PostID=3804</wfw:commentRss><description>Here's a matter that knows no party or region or class: flowers, which I must remember to teach my son are not always such a thoughtful gift. One of my dearest friends celebrated a big, big birthday last week. And what did her husband do to mark the milestone?...(&lt;a href="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/2008/10/07/you-don-t-send-me-flowers.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://www.slate.com/blogs/aggbug.aspx?PostID=3804" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/marriage/default.aspx">marriage</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/middle-aged+women/default.aspx">middle-aged women</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/Michelle+Obama/default.aspx">Michelle Obama</category></item><item><title>The Meaning of Dara</title><link>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/2008/07/29/some-thoughts-on-dara-torres-dara-torres.aspx</link><pubDate>Tue, 29 Jul 2008 14:09:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b38b617e-fbf1-4816-b2a6-f11ec83af8cb:3389</guid><dc:creator>Melinda Henneberger</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/comments/3389.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/commentrss.aspx?PostID=3389</wfw:commentRss><description>The following is a guest post from former competitive swimmer Michelle Brafman, who teaches and writes fiction in Washington: Dara Torres. Dara Torres. God, it would be so easy to hate her. Let's start with the abs that defy nature, maddening proof that...(&lt;a href="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/2008/07/29/some-thoughts-on-dara-torres-dara-torres.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://www.slate.com/blogs/aggbug.aspx?PostID=3389" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/middle-aged+women/default.aspx">middle-aged women</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/Dara+Torres/default.aspx">Dara Torres</category></item><item><title>That's Why They're in Treatment ...</title><link>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/2008/03/19/that-s-why-they-re-in-treatment.aspx</link><pubDate>Wed, 19 Mar 2008 21:04:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b38b617e-fbf1-4816-b2a6-f11ec83af8cb:2107</guid><dc:creator>Melinda Henneberger</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/comments/2107.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/commentrss.aspx?PostID=2107</wfw:commentRss><description>In a newsroom, you see right away that a high percentage of people who would like you to write about them — people with serious grievances of all kinds, against the cops or the city or the hospital or whatever — are at least a little bit crazy. Unfortunately,...(&lt;a href="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/2008/03/19/that-s-why-they-re-in-treatment.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://www.slate.com/blogs/aggbug.aspx?PostID=2107" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/Barack+Obama/default.aspx">Barack Obama</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/Hillary+Clinton/default.aspx">Hillary Clinton</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/sex+discrimination/default.aspx">sex discrimination</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/middle-aged+women/default.aspx">middle-aged women</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/race/default.aspx">race</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/campaign+2008/default.aspx">campaign 2008</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/Jeremiah+Wright/default.aspx">Jeremiah Wright</category></item><item><title>Wish I Looked That Scary</title><link>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/2008/02/06/wish-i-looked-that-scary.aspx</link><pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2008 16:56:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b38b617e-fbf1-4816-b2a6-f11ec83af8cb:1380</guid><dc:creator>Melinda Henneberger</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/comments/1380.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/commentrss.aspx?PostID=1380</wfw:commentRss><description>Well, devil temptress, thy name is Hanna, but I am standing my ground on Cindy McCain; well-exfoliated, yes, but love the upsweep. As for the color red, maybe it's on my mind because I recently had my once-a-decade consult with my friendly neighborhood...(&lt;a href="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/2008/02/06/wish-i-looked-that-scary.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://www.slate.com/blogs/aggbug.aspx?PostID=1380" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/women/default.aspx">women</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/feminism/default.aspx">feminism</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/John+McCain/default.aspx">John McCain</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/_2700_08+election/default.aspx">'08 election</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/middle-aged+women/default.aspx">middle-aged women</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/Super+Tuesday/default.aspx">Super Tuesday</category></item><item><title>Enough Photo Fun Already!</title><link>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/2007/12/18/enough-photo-fun-already.aspx</link><pubDate>Tue, 18 Dec 2007 23:50:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b38b617e-fbf1-4816-b2a6-f11ec83af8cb:501</guid><dc:creator>June Thomas</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/comments/501.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/commentrss.aspx?PostID=501</wfw:commentRss><description>As Melinda said , for everyone who chuckles at the photo of Hillary looking haggard, there’s at least one other person whose vote will be tipped in her direction if they sense she’s being picked on for being a middle-aged woman who looks like a middle-aged...(&lt;a href="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/2007/12/18/enough-photo-fun-already.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://www.slate.com/blogs/aggbug.aspx?PostID=501" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/Mike+Huckabee/default.aspx">Mike Huckabee</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/Hillary+Clinton/default.aspx">Hillary Clinton</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/photographs/default.aspx">photographs</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/middle-aged+women/default.aspx">middle-aged women</category></item></channel></rss>