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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="http://www.slate.com/blogs/utility/FeedStylesheets/rss.xsl" media="screen"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"><channel><title>The XX Factor : custody</title><link>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/custody/default.aspx</link><description>Tags: custody</description><dc:language>en</dc:language><generator>CommunityServer 2.1 SP2 (Build: 61129.2)</generator><item><title>Who Gets Custody More Often, Mothers or Fathers?</title><link>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/2008/08/07/who-gets-custody-more-often-mothers-or-fathers.aspx</link><pubDate>Thu, 07 Aug 2008 22:05:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b38b617e-fbf1-4816-b2a6-f11ec83af8cb:3428</guid><dc:creator>E.J. Graff</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/comments/3428.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/commentrss.aspx?PostID=3428</wfw:commentRss><description>Well, Meghan , I didn't mean to bludgeon you about Clark What's-His-Name. Meanwhile, I'm still mucking around trying to find out who gets custody more often. I've got queries out to some researchers and will post here when I get answers. Until then, here's...(&lt;a href="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/2008/08/07/who-gets-custody-more-often-mothers-or-fathers.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://www.slate.com/blogs/aggbug.aspx?PostID=3428" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/motherhood/default.aspx">motherhood</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/custody/default.aspx">custody</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/fathers/default.aspx">fathers</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/domestic+violence/default.aspx">domestic violence</category></item><item><title>But Really—Surely You Don't Feel Sorry for Clark Rockefeller?!</title><link>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/2008/08/06/but-really-surely-you-don-t-feel-sorry-for-clark-rockefeller.aspx</link><pubDate>Wed, 06 Aug 2008 17:53:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b38b617e-fbf1-4816-b2a6-f11ec83af8cb:3422</guid><dc:creator>E.J. Graff</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/comments/3422.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/commentrss.aspx?PostID=3422</wfw:commentRss><description>Meghan , I guess I just can't let this bone go. I do understand sympathy for fathers who feel shut out of relationships with their children—and actually, for anyone (man or woman) who ends up in family court, waiting for a judge to decide the fate of...(&lt;a href="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/2008/08/06/but-really-surely-you-don-t-feel-sorry-for-clark-rockefeller.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://www.slate.com/blogs/aggbug.aspx?PostID=3422" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/divorce/default.aspx">divorce</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/motherhood/default.aspx">motherhood</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/custody/default.aspx">custody</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/fathers/default.aspx">fathers</category></item><item><title>Sympathy for the Devil—Clark Rockefeller, Feminism, Moms, and Dads</title><link>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/2008/08/05/sympathy-for-the-devil-clark-rockefeller-feminism-moms-and-dads.aspx</link><pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2008 18:58:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b38b617e-fbf1-4816-b2a6-f11ec83af8cb:3418</guid><dc:creator>E.J. Graff</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/comments/3418.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/commentrss.aspx?PostID=3418</wfw:commentRss><description>Meghan, Dahlia has noted the painful fact that there is simply no good way for divorced families to accommodate two working parents (a product of a changed economy more than of feminism, I would argue, but that's for another day). So let me take issue...(&lt;a href="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/2008/08/05/sympathy-for-the-devil-clark-rockefeller-feminism-moms-and-dads.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://www.slate.com/blogs/aggbug.aspx?PostID=3418" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/feminism/default.aspx">feminism</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/divorce/default.aspx">divorce</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/motherhood/default.aspx">motherhood</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/custody/default.aspx">custody</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/fathers/default.aspx">fathers</category></item><item><title>More on Clark Rockefeller and Fathers' Rights</title><link>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/2008/08/05/more-on-clarl-rockefeller-and-fathers-rights.aspx</link><pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2008 16:48:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b38b617e-fbf1-4816-b2a6-f11ec83af8cb:3417</guid><dc:creator>Dahlia Lithwick</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/comments/3417.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/commentrss.aspx?PostID=3417</wfw:commentRss><description>Meghan , the Clark Rockefeller story really is deeply weird, and getting weirder by the day. Now we hear allegations that he’s tied to some murder in California . Jump back Lifetime. You can’t make this stuff up. You’re also right that there is something...(&lt;a href="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/2008/08/05/more-on-clarl-rockefeller-and-fathers-rights.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://www.slate.com/blogs/aggbug.aspx?PostID=3417" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/divorce/default.aspx">divorce</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/custody/default.aspx">custody</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/fathers/default.aspx">fathers</category></item><item><title>Kidnapping, Divorce, and How Feminism Short Shrifts Dads</title><link>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/2008/08/04/kidnapping-divorce-and-how-feminism-shortshrifts-dads.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 04 Aug 2008 15:42:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b38b617e-fbf1-4816-b2a6-f11ec83af8cb:3414</guid><dc:creator>Meghan O'Rourke</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/comments/3414.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/commentrss.aspx?PostID=3414</wfw:commentRss><description>Has anyone been following the amazing story of Clark Rockefeller, the divorced father who kidnapped his daughter last week when she was visiting from England with her mother? There are many incredible elements to the story, including the fact that Rockefeller...(&lt;a href="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/2008/08/04/kidnapping-divorce-and-how-feminism-shortshrifts-dads.aspx"&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;img src="http://www.slate.com/blogs/aggbug.aspx?PostID=3414" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/divorce/default.aspx">divorce</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/custody/default.aspx">custody</category><category domain="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/tags/fathers/default.aspx">fathers</category></item></channel></rss>