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  • Feeling Bad For Prep School Brats


    Early in the first episode of NYC Prep, Bravo’s new, Gossip Girl-inspired reality show about New York City high school students that starts tonight, PC, the self-styled Chuck Bass of the bunch, says to the camera, “In New York City, money flows like the wind.” It was at this, the moment of the overly knowing, slightly off metaphor, that I realized it was going to be impossible for me to hate him. Try as he and the five other teenagers featured on the show might—and God they try—there is no talk of money, sex, or power, no uncanny preciousness, no shopper at Barneys, no address on the Upper East Side, no limo rides, and ultimately no reality show that can turn these kids into adults. Despite their best efforts, and all of their privileges, they are in a high school state of mind.

    Take, for example, Camille, a senior at tony all-girls school Nightgale-Bamford, who asserts about her own future: “I will go to Harvard. Then I will be the business head of a genetics firm. And then at 40 I will have a husband and two kids.” This is delivered with the frightening intensity we have come to expect from Blair Waldorf, and is not, exactly, typical of the average 17-year-old. And yet, it is still wholly laughable. Check back in a few years, Camille, after life has gotten in the way.

    Even more of the series is taken up with genuinely unprecocious high school antics, just enacted on the glamorous streets of New York City. Taylor, a 16-year-old who attends, gasp, public school tells her mother that...(To read the rest of this post, visit our new website DoubleX.com!)
  • Busted for Birth Control


    A high school student gets caught popping a pill at the lunch table. Had she been taking an illegal drug, Fairfax County's "zero tolerance" policy would have called for a 5-day suspension. But she was taking birth control prescribed by her doctor and purchased by her mother. A student who brings a "controlled substance" into a Fairfax County high school is subject to the same penalties as a student carrying a gun. So the girl was suspended for two weeks and "recommended for expulsion." Last Thursday, The Washington Post reports, "a long table full of school officials weighed her case at a hearing."

    I don't doubt that Ortho Tri-Cyclen is extremely dangerous to a certain social order—far more so than is, say, heroin. But it seems like the kind of thing public high schools should be encouraging. 

  • Leaving the Safety of the Bubble


    I, too, was fascinated by that Washington Post piece on pregnant high school students—and very conflicted about it. Making it as easy as possible for pregnant teens and young moms to get an education is admirable, but it also, I'd imagine, establishes unrealistic expectations for these girls. Once they're done with high school, even if they qualify for assistance, as many of them do, they'll face far more obstacles. It seems highly unlikely that they would have access to on-site day care in the real world, for instance.

    Ann, I love your idea of having a new mom speak at the "family life" courses—and maybe she can be joined by a young mother who got pregnant as a student and has spent a few years trying to juggle work and getting a toddler to (and paying for) day care. That might help the girls and guys alike realize that the school's Tiny Titans is not something to be taken for granted.

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