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Friday, June 19, 2009 - Posts

  • Every Sperm Is Super-Sized


    And you thought human sex was messy: A paper published in Science yesterday introduces the world to a bunch of tiny, ancient crustaceans that produced relatively massive sperm. And io9.com has pictures! (Don't worry; they're safe for work—and oddly beautiful.)

    Researchers in Europe used cutting-edge "synchrotron X-ray holotomography" to non-invasively examine 100-million-year-old fossilized ostracods. The descendants of these millimeter-long creatures produce giant sperm—up to 10 times as big as their bodies, in some cases—and the new fossil images prove... (To read the rest of this post, visit our new website DoubleX.com!)

  • The Agony and Ecstasy of Revolution


    A post from Double X writer Vanessa M. Gezari:

    I experienced yet another burst of joy on behalf of Iranians today as I read this dispatch about the meaning—and more importantly, the feeling—of the post-election demonstrations. The piece, by an Iranian student named Shane M., is very good until the last four paragraphs, when it becomes astonishing. The writer paints an image of a country surprised by itself—by its own spirit and audacity and modernity and intellectualism—and by the dramatic pace of change that was supposed to unfold slowly, almost imperceptibly, until it snowballed... (To read the rest of this post, visit our new website DoubleX.com!)

  • Keep Mothers Out of Father's Day


    Dayo, I disagree that mothers—even single mothers—should be honored on Father’s Day. If we systematically turn Father’s Day into yet another celebration of all of the child-rearing and housekeeping that female heads of household take care of, I worry that will inadvertently suggest that there isn’t enough child-rearing and housekeeping to celebrate among dads... (To read the rest of this post, visit our new website DoubleX.com!)

  • This Sunday: Call to Stand With Demonstrators in Iran


    A friend urges me to tell you that you might want to check out this weekend's call to stand with the people of Iran. Groups are gathering on Sunday at 3 p.m. in select cities to show support for protesters in Tehran... (To read the rest of this post, visit our new website DoubleX.com!)

  • In Defense of the Boring Marriage


    In the past few days, on my own website, my life has been reduced to vanilla pudding. I am dull, devoid of passion, pedestrian, the human equivalent of a “yawning chubby house cat,” says Meghan, summarizing Cristina Nehring’s new book Vindication of Love, the caged bird who forgot how to sing. This is because I am trapped in something that goes by the clinical name of “companionate marriage,” and worse, I like it... (To read the rest of this post, visit our new website DoubleX.com!)

     

  • Let Us Now Praise Helpful Wives


    It would have been so much easier for me to find the time to write this post if I had voice-recognition software, a sophisticated self-built database with all my contacts including my Double X blog posting instructions, which I keep losing, and most of all if I had an administrative-assistant-type of husband who handled all the household bills and dental appointments and child-care challenges and playdates and grocery shopping and left me free to spend more time at the keyboard.

    But I don't have these things. I mean, I do have a husband, and he does what he can, but he leaves for work earlier than I do, so this morning I was the one who took the cat to the vet. Despite the resulting time crunch, I am posting anyway to say that I was fascinated by David Pogue's column in the New York Times revealing his work efficiency secrets... (To read the rest of this post, visit our new website DoubleX.com!)

  • When Father's Day is Mother's Day


    When word broke that Barack Obama is pausing his busy schedule of revamping health care and heeding climate science and not intervening in the electoral process of a sovereign nation in order to spend three hours preaching "responsible fatherhood"—why, I nearly did a jig. The celebrity-stuffed event in the East Room sheds light on a little-reported obsession of the president whose own father abandoned him when he was barely 2 years old... (To read the rest of this post, visit our new website DoubleX.com!)

  • Dear Mom: I'd Rather You Write About Me, Not You


    Coming from a family of writers, I am all too familiar with the delicate issue you raise, Bonnie, of whether and how to write about one’s family. For me, the most uncomfortable part of having a writer for a mother isn’t when she writes about me. The unsettling part is when she writes about herself... (To read the rest of this post, visit our new website DoubleX.com!)

  • Nice Girls Are So 2007


    Susannah, you're right that the appeal of the Real Housewives of New Jersey lies in their outsize cattiness. But in today's XXtra Small, Torie writes about the anti-Housewife: The Hills' Lauren Conrad and her new, semi-autobiographical book L.A. Candy. Conrad's appeal has always been as the bland nice girl... (To read the rest of this post, visit our new website DoubleX.com!)

  • Why "The Real Housewives of New Jersey" Is a Runaway Hit


    Why is The Real Housewives of New Jersey a smash-hit? The season finale's 4.6 million viewers in the 18-to-49-year-old demographic testify to its broad appeal, but why are we so enamored with these table-tossing housewives? Is it the big hair? The brash talk? The back stabbing? One thing's for sure. It's not their manners.

    Out of all the Real Housewives series—from Orange County to Atlanta to New York City—"New Jersey" is the breakaway hit. Because I have deeply bad taste in TV... (To read the rest of this post, visit our new website DoubleX.com!)

  • That’s Ms. Senator, If You’re Nasty


    We’ve debated whether to hug or not to hug in professional settings, but what’s the proper protocol when it comes to titles? At a hearing on Tuesday, California Sen. Barbara Boxer told Brig. Gen. Michael Walsh, division leader of the Army Corps of Engineers, "Could you say 'senator' instead of 'ma'am? It's just a thing. I worked so hard to get that title. I'd appreciate it." The General, with all the quickness of an Army lifer, responded... (To read the rest of this post, visit our new website DoubleX.com!)

  • "The Proposal": Romcom Meets Bad Slapstick


    Sandra Bullock is right that The Proposal, out today, is not about cougars. The movie ignores the age gap between leading lady Bullock, almost 45, and leading man Ryan Reynolds, 32. Which is good, according to Bullock: "The word cougar makes me want to throw up in my mouth,” she told USA Today.

    But Bullock is wrong when she tries to duck the romcom label. “It's a comedy that has romance in it,” she insists. ‘When you say romantic comedy, everyone cringes.” Sorry, but the plot is as romcom as it gets... (To read the rest of this post, visit our new website DoubleX.com!)

  • Girls Can't Play White House Hoops?


    A guest post from Politico writer Lisa Lerer:

    Obsessive White House watchers can't stop talking about an ESPN article on the political pecking order of presidential basketball games. Author Wright Thompson breaks down the sociology (and some of the psychology) of how power works in Washington.

    "What's the hottest invite in Washington?" former Clinton press secretary Dee Dee Myers asks in the article. "Yeah, it's great to go to White House state dinners or Stevie Wonder kinds of events. But what's the sine qua non? It's a pickup game with Obama. That's the inner, inner, inner sanctum."

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